Ah, but I am speaking to you, not Five. And I do not know what Five desires of you. Nor, truly, what you desire of him either.
But it's a matter of patience. I do not expect you to expend effort on things that are of no interest to you. On the other hand, if you desire something, then do not simply expect the other party to desire it too. Never enter into anything expecting a return on your investment in it. Attempt things because you wish to see them through, and no other reason.
If you wish to learn how to engage with Five without conflict, do it because you wish to, and do not place the expectation that he has the same wish on him. And if you do not wish to bother, if the possibility that he may not be interested in the first place keeps you from wishing to develope a rapport where he may or may not open to you, then in turn, use that energy on other things.
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But it's a matter of patience. I do not expect you to expend effort on things that are of no interest to you. On the other hand, if you desire something, then do not simply expect the other party to desire it too. Never enter into anything expecting a return on your investment in it. Attempt things because you wish to see them through, and no other reason.
If you wish to learn how to engage with Five without conflict, do it because you wish to, and do not place the expectation that he has the same wish on him. And if you do not wish to bother, if the possibility that he may not be interested in the first place keeps you from wishing to develope a rapport where he may or may not open to you, then in turn, use that energy on other things.
So tell me, what is it you wish for, with Five?